First time poster feeling a bit lost

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Since she told you that the two of you need to talk, I think she is going to hit you with another bomb or want to proceed with the D filing. Be ready for the worst. I know this is not what you want to hear, but I think that is the only reason she agreed to have dinner with you.


Expect it at the dinner.

I am not so sure about this one Sandii, I will expect it but having resigned myself to it already it wont even register.

He is planning a talk with her. Lay down the law so to speak. I dont think its helpful, she says it upsets her and its her life not theirs.

She is not a child and she will resent him for treating her like one. Where does he get off laying down the law? (That will be her way of thinking.)

Agreed, MIL called her in work this morning in floods of tears. W left work to go see MIL. I didnt ask how it went. So things are still the same.
W bumped in to me in a store buying new clothes for Saturday, Surprise over now. But what I can tell you is that I have dropped jean size or two. It was 8-10years ago when I wore this size. It felt great.



Remember that you are the "prize" to have and not the victim. Act like the prize.

Nice, thanks Sandii.