I notice those little things too. Its almost like them picking and choosing the times to play family and the times not to. Xmas is tough even for BS. The guilt must eat them alive.

You are the poster child for not showing your emotion to your W! Keep it up.

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!