Divorced and want to reconcile...

[dday101798]

Mar,

NO, NO, NO!!!!!

With that response, you loaded up the gun, sat down, propped both feet up and just started plugging away at them!!!!!

You sent the man you left feeling not good enough for his own wife a reminder of all his faults and how he STILL disapoints YOU?

I'll bet his reaction to that is not going to be a good one.

If my XW did that, I'd tell her to get lost [putting it mildly] and never bother with me again as that just re-opened some huge scars.

As for the "baby-sitting" issue, I have always stood my ground to not do anything other then take my boys dinner every now and then (on my request) on days that are not "mine". Otherwise, [and here's where the hostility of a LBH comes into play], if I wasn't good enough to be a full time husband and father, I'm certainly not good enough to be a baby-sitter. EDIT- to make life convenient for the person who told me I made their life SO inconvenient.