<<you get a chance to fall in love with someone or something all over again>>
Hey, I am a gemini as well...thanks Ali. So i guess NGF is due for some TLC.....or somebody else???
You sound better today K. I was reading the DB book yesterday(not for me but for you)...more precisely the recovering from infidelity section. Interesting stuff. It apparently is normal for the person who was cheated on to have these feelings (one day in one day out / you know what I mean). So don't be so hard on yourself....and stop worrying about other people and what they thought or think etc.....who cares. It is about YOU and H...let the other folks think what they want.
As far as the list is concerned:
the mail to her: at this point he will surely say that it is not neccesary, he has had no contact with her, he sees no reason to rehash this etc. etc. / if indeed he has had no contact, he may have a point. He used the tiger startegy, keep quiet and it will go away.
his passwords: this is a tricky one. by asking him for the passwords, you are basically saying i do not trust you. If I were in his shoes that would be a huge sign that my spouse has trust issues and I would not only give the passwords but try to make those issues go away. Of course he may be protecting you because she still sends him stuff.
to get rid off whatever she gave him/is connected to her :gifts, tapes etc etc: are you aware of what those gifts are?
answer a few questions he avoids to: like what???
change cars: just get them cleaned by a professional, alot cheaper than a new car.
tell me he loves me: I am sure he has told you many times since his return.....no?
wear his ring: he does not wear his ring?
hug me and kiss me more: do you hug and kiss him?
I have not told you for a while but I am pulling for you!
