May I ask why your so surprised? Is this not in line with WAW's thinking?
A WAW is walking "away" from her H.....not toward him. She typically will stay away from intimate dinners, etc., b/c she knows that H will more than likely get the idea there is still hope.
Since she told you that the two of you need to talk, I think she is going to hit you with another bomb or want to proceed with the D filing. Be ready for the worst. I know this is not what you want to hear, but I think that is the only reason she agreed to have dinner with you.
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I am expecting the EA/PA bomb shortly after.
Expect it at the dinner.
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He is planning a talk with her. Lay down the law so to speak. I dont think its helpful, she says it upsets her and its her life not theirs.
She is not a child and she will resent him for treating her like one. Where does he get off laying down the law? (That will be her way of thinking.)
I have to keep it short this morning. Getting ready for work.
Remember that you are the "prize" to have and not the victim. Act like the prize.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
