Tulsa, I live in Texas. I think it takes at least 60 days in Texas for D to be finalized. But, the kicker is, I am protected under an act the military is protected under from any legal action, while deployed. So, that gives me about 5 months total. Not sure what I can do in the 3 months I am still deployed, and then 2 months home that will make a difference besides to continue to DB. Ya, she spewed filth about a D around early Oct, Nov, but not much about D since. I am assuming that it will start back up soon, as she doesn't have much else to threaten me with, and I am returning home soon. When she does that, she KNOWS that it hurts me, so she just keeps digging that knife in, twisting it. She knows that I dont want D, and I'm sure she will start to use that against me. Not sure how to react to that, but will do so when the time comes. I am so thankful for all of the posters. Everyone brings a little something to the table. But, ya Puppy, Coach and Greek have weighed in heavily in my thread, and I am so appreciative of that.
"embrace the suck" - Coach "don't go all "Melty Man" on us" - Puppy Let Go and Let God Finally "Got It" - 15 Jan 2010