bluerain, thank you. Control and detachment are the 2 things I AM working so hard on. I find myself slipping from time to time, but always find a way to pull myself up by my boot straps and dust myself off. I am really looking forward to seeing my boys, and spending as much time with them as possible. Everything else takes a back seat to my boys. I think the unknown is what I worry too much about. I have got to let go of that, and just accept and deal with whatever is thrown my way. My job in all of that, is to be like teflon, let the good things stick, and the rest slide right off. I am so glad that I found this site, and all of you.
"embrace the suck" - Coach "don't go all "Melty Man" on us" - Puppy Let Go and Let God Finally "Got It" - 15 Jan 2010