Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[bluerain]

Good, I posted on someone elses thread today that I think that in these terrible situations, we gain a lot for ourselves, perspective, patience, humility. Personally, my perspective is about 180 deg. from where it started 2 years ago, and Im a better person, and someday will be a better wife again, for it.

I was an Army brat, and later a military spouse, so I know what your saying. I think that all you can do for sure for those boys is make sure that they know that you will always do your best to support them, like you said, you already have done that.

Regaining control and detaching from your situation are what you need to be focusing on right now. Detaching will help you focus on where you are now.

I hope that things get easier for you SD.