here we go again

[bluerain]

And I suppose that you cant use the cards to pay for a phone coach since he maxed them out! What a creep.

I think that the visitation thing is pretty smart to think about now. The kids, and you for that matter, need stability. So far, he hasnt been that great about respecting your plans of when he is to come around- like when he was supposed to come get his things- so, I think that if there is a time he is supposed to come get her and hes not there within 10 minutes or so, you should load those kiddos up and go for a ride.

Why do you want to protect him? Dont you think that eventually they will find out on their own? He made those choices, you didnt force his hand or trick him into using them. He has basically stolen from you and your kids! While you arent working after the baby, it would be nice if you had had the cards as a safety net in case you need something! Does your fraud protection refund the money that was spent?