Ok, been thinking-and NO I didn't hurt myself!! Now that I have taken control of the finances/me/my life etc. Won't the fact that I took over the finances make me look like MORE of a monster to her? I mean, how can that be a good thing to her? I'm not sure. I would think that this action would push WAS further away, instead of bringing W closer? I dunno. Maybe I am 2-3 steps ahead of myself here. How does all this DBing, bring them back?
"embrace the suck" - Coach "don't go all "Melty Man" on us" - Puppy Let Go and Let God Finally "Got It" - 15 Jan 2010