sorry you are in this situation. keep your head up, try to stay strong and not needy.
in early october my husband wanted out (we have been married for 13 years and this is not the first time he has stated this) he said he was not in love with me, that he was unhappy and wanted to get on with his life. he didn't move out but travels for work so he was pretty much gone during that time.
at first i pleaded and kept trying to talk to him about it. he agreed to go to counseling, but only to help me understand that we were getting divorced.
as the weeks went on, i worked on me. got back into shape (for me, not him) and stopped talking about our relationship. however, the few times that we did, i was honest and let him know that i still wanted it to work but i was also able to show him changes i was making.
2 weeks ago he said he would be willing to try to work things out. though he is still uncertain of the outcome, these past 2 weeks have been great.
my point is there is now hope, where just a few weeks ago i had thought there was none.
take care of you and your baby and show him how strong and wonderful you are.
