Reading along yesterday, I couldn't help but want to pop her one! It's really cruel to do this, with so many miles between you, and your boys in her possession. 12 and 15? I have a S12, and one of the things I have set as a HARD boundary was that H NEVER discuss his issues w/"us" with them, until we BOTH agree what will be said. The minute something is said, you've taken away a certain innocence from them. And, you can never replace it.
Last edited by mindfull; 12/02/0904:51 AM.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
