Hmmmm, well, that makes perfect sense. Maybe they don't want to go because they know don't want to face their own problems/issues, and as long as they aren't forced to expose/admit them-they aren't the ones at fault!!! Well, at least that's what I imagine they are thinking. Wish I knew how long it was going to take/if ever, for them to start thinking clearly. In my sitch, my W is much too prideful to admit she made a mistake, so I think I am pretty much on my way to D. That is the harsh reality of my sitch. Plus, she has probably told/said so much about me to her friendc/co-workers, she would never lose face in front of them. Well, at least that's the way she used to be. I dunno...


"embrace the suck" - Coach
"don't go all "Melty Man" on us" - Puppy
Let Go and Let God
Finally "Got It" - 15 Jan 2010

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