SoldierDad - re: counseling/therapy to TRY. My H feels the same way... won't even consider it. I KNOW it's because he doesn't want to hear things he will be told, or asked to think about... Wouldn't make them wrong, or feel guilt, or take away from their fantasy future existence?

Last edited by mindfull; 12/02/09 04:33 AM.

Me-46, D-21, S15, S13

After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.