I think i may be in the same boat of having a spouse that is trying to save face in his family and can not do anything because of his pride.

we are no where near any path of reconciling but i've gotta believe his pride gets in the way of what he wants to do.

Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline