Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

I will/am. I have been doing a lot of reading in the forums, and am amazed at the similarities in everyones sitch. I never imagined myself in this sitch, in a million years before I deployed. As a matter of fact, I briefed my Soldiers that some of them would get divorced, their wives would leave them etc. I never thought it would happen to me. Is nothing sacred anymore? What is in the water to make these WAS do this? What is so hard about going to counseling/therapy and at least TRYING to work on the R/M? I just don't get it. My W is completely closed down to going to counseling-never even considered it. I just don't understand it.