Hoping WAW will someday see through the fog....

[Gnosis]

SSGA, firstly I'm sorry... funny how that one word cannot seem to convey the sympathy correctly, but it's there. You're right, you have not been left with a choice. You and the kids deserve better and you'll get it.

You've made tremendous strides with yourself. You've grown and come out of this a better and stronger man. Rest assured that you tried the best you could. The next woman you get involved with will reap all the benefits... and there are many... some you're not even aware of. Of this I'm confident.

You're a good man and a great father. You're a shining example for your sons and they will respect you for trying and standing up for yourself. Yes, you made it through this the better man.

And, I'm not trying to give you hope here, but don't be surprised if you filing wakes her up from the fog. This is a possibility and has happened before, especially when the LBH has taken back the control.

Don't compromise my friend. Go for the best deal you can get, for your sons. I hope you continue posting here.