thanks for the encouragement I am cautiously optimistic that I can build some on this. H is coming over for dinner THursday night and staying so we can get an early start to his mom's on Friday. Hope it leads to something Definitely trying to be realistic and proceed slowly. My son does know I am trying to divorce bust--win H back but he just believes his Dad is unable to tell me the truth and is stringing me along.
H has first phone consult(after we met with her in Ill in Nove) with DB coach this Friday. They certainly will have a lot to talk about with son's reaction.
I stopped and got some comedy movies for Thurs nite so I can be light and breezy and fun like OW after dinner. Trying to find little acts of service/gifts of service to appeal to H love language without going overboard.
Yes, Saffie I think my H is really torn about "hurting" anyone's feelings. I think he is still very infatuated with her but maybe tide is turning.
