Not sure what to do

[bluerain]

Hi stu, Im sorry that you are having a tough time today. I dont think that theres much that you can do either way but keep working on you and getting yourself into a better place.

You need to keep making positive changes for yourself, the CPAP, the new clothes, take care of yourself. If you come out of this as a healthier father, a better man who has learned about relationships and coping, even if your marriage doesnt survive, you will come out a better man.

You know her better than anyone else, and if there is no evidence of an OM, then maybe there isnt one. Maybe we will never know for certain... Its just another one of those things that you cant worry yourself to death over. If your son hasnt met an OM yet, and shes not pawning him off on you, or other babysitters, than maybe it makes sense that there isnt an OM.

Also, Im not sure that shes being quite cruel as a WAW with an OM.