You came to the right place. The people here are very supportive and there is alot to learn. I'm not near divorce yet so I can't give you much but my H is very distant too so I understand how you are feeling.

All you can do right now is work on you - be strong and keep reading here.

M44 H41
M20 T23
3 older teens
Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy"
EA Nov 09 w/coworker
Another PA in Mar 10
I Filed Apr 10
D final Dec 10