Confused, I will be thinking of you. In a similar boat now so trying to read and learn from your sitch.
I'm really sorry to hear that. It's a really crappy sitch to be in. Not sure how much there is I learn from but if you want to friend me in fb (Ci Pa) we can try to exchange info to chat. I found that has really helped me through this roller coaster.
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13