Originally Posted By: kara


I will handle it and I will handle it well. I have mapped out my plan of who and where I need to be. Instead of hoping that my H falls back in love with me, I am going to fall in love with myself, if that makes sense. I am really going to get me FOR ME. Be confident for ME. Be sexy for ME. Not from an arrogant, selfish or conceited point of view. I just think that this is the way for me to emerge healthy and whole. And by focusing on myself I will cease to focus on my H. I am going to be comitted to myself for once.


Makes perfect sense to me. You are quite the inspiration.

Thank you.


Me & H: 33 yrs
S: 4 & 6
D: 2
M: 9 yrs
ILYBNILWY: 8/09
SEPARATED: 9/09
The Beginning