Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Ok, I woke up with a new e-mail message - simply states: going to grocery store tonight, but you will see that when I use my debit card. Obviously, during the day, she found out everything she "thought" was true-wasn't. Any thoughts/advice on what I need to do now? I am concerned that she is going to try to become friendly, and bring me back in, and I will rush into that. Well, maybe I am getting ahead of myself, she has made NO attempt at being nice, or trying to draw me back to her. Maybe it is wishful thinking, I dunno. I have so many things spinning through my mind. I'm sure she is telling my boys what a horrible person/father I am, cutting off the money etc. I think they are old enough to read between the lines though.