You sound like you are handling all of this very well and why shouldn't you? You've built quite a good life for yourself out of all the pieces.
Accountability partners are so important in goal setting, especially in fitness. Having a healthy fear of your sister can't hurt either!! She'll keep you on track.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!