When I dropped off some of the financials with the atty's assistant, I found out something that surprised me.
Apparently the 90-day period starts when I filed. Back in September.
So, if we successfully write up the settlement on 12/9, and Dan signs it when he gets back from his trip 12/11, we could easily be divorced by his birthday 12/20...
I know it is coming but that is faster than I anticipated...I thought it would be 'all over but the judge's signature' by then, but still 90 days to wait. Apparently not.