First of all, kudos to you for taking a stand. My sitch is a little different, but I also recently decided that I have done everything that I can and am leaving the rest up to the God.
I don't have any advice for you regarding H's return. Not knowing your full sitch, my intitial reaction is WTF. How did you handle his return?
Me & H: 33 yrs S: 4 & 6 D: 2 M: 9 yrs ILYBNILWY: 8/09 SEPARATED: 9/09 The Beginning