You sound like you are getting to a good place. I wish you well.
I have also decided to step back from my sitch. I find that it is very easy to become consumed by this DBing which is why GALing and getting out really is so important. The thought of repairing or restoring my M was the uppermost thought in my mind for the last year to the exclusion of everything else. It is just not a healthy way to live and it is not sustainable. I think we will all do much better when we achieve the necessary balance in our lives. I have spent the weekend formulating my game plan on how to do this and I am happy with what I have come up with.
I really hope that you will be able to get your own place in the new year. That will go a long way in helping you to feel that you are regaining control of your life.
