Well been a while since I've been on so here goes.
The new job is great.it feels so good to be productive again. Looks like I will get to keep the house...Big yeaaaa ! The W and I have actually been making progress.even though I still miss her immensely.we have been spending some quality time together as a family and mass together every sunday. I think this has been very helpful. Still no physical contact. we spent Thanksgiving together and I actaully was given two hugs that day hello and goodbuy although she stated the goodbuy was a little to long,but she still enjoyed it.the good news was that she is not going to proceed with the divorce as long as things stay positive.she is still afraid of being hurt again and me having a relapse but I assured her she doesn't have to worry.she said it is going to take time, hopefully not to much...... I miss her Anyway just a little update hope all is well.
God bless
H 49 W 42 S 19 S 14 S 12 S 8 D 6 M 19 Bomb dropped 2/09 Separated 5/09 still hopeful, praying