hey guys, here are a few things that have occurred the past 4 days...could you please let me know if they are accurate as far as DR?

have not called him
have ended conversation when he has called...ive been busy
have not reminded him to call his kids(this one is REALLY hard...they are small and deserve better too)
have not asked if or when he will be coming to the house
have not asked will he be around for dinner...

if these seem small, they are babysteps for me! these are some BIG things that i have driven him further away with


what i have done is basically not answer the phone with 1st call, been cheery(and meant it!), listened and only offered anything when he asked my opinion, kept everything short and sweet but did show interest...sincerly

Last edited by lost1234; 12/02/09 12:03 AM.
me 39
h 38
kids 9 and 6
h left 8/9/09
loving and devoted wife and mother
still going...10 months later...




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