I am a teacher...what discipline measures has she put into place? Is she "loose" with behavior management?

Oh and we do need to observe changes of behavior in WS to see if our strategies are working (it's in Divorce Remedy) but not get too excited about the small stuff. Like P17 told me, notice it but it's part of the whole jigsaw.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004