I accept that her affair has gone PA now that she has had her own apt. for several weeks, and I have had the kids 70% of the time including almost all of the weekend time.
I accept that this will be a lot of work. I am absolutely willing to do all of the work until it is dead and gone, and maybe even after.
I think I have been following plan A very well. Can you tell me the lovebusting behaviors or send me to a link to see them?
I politely called out some disrespect issues she had been doing (e.g., used my credit card that we agreed was emergency use only) and the message that I can't be married to someone having an A. I see that as the ultimate disrespect. I noticed that she has been polite to a fault since I did so.
