Originally Posted By: cutterbug
Don't ask the question. Keep that one back. It is yours to use when she decides to come back. Don't throw it away. If she emails ignore. Phone call... Short and sweet and end it. Remember the words " I will think about that. Gotta run. "


She should be going through IM anyway so ignoring is fine. I am actually looking forward to next contact.

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I got that look as well when I was out with a friend and bumped into her friends. It was interesting to say the least.


But I don't quite get it. If she is having an A and they all know about it (which I am actually starting to doubt to be honest) then why is me walking in with a woman a problem?!?!?

As W's friends think OM was a lodger, MAYBE work think the same. I was led to believe they all knew he was OM.

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Now you know what. You can go back in there again with your friend. Not this week but maybe in 2 weeks. Grab another bottle of wine. smile


I intend to!

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You do not have to say anything. Except smile and look into her eyes when she talks.

3rd party will take care of the rest.


Wondering how far to take it. Do I slap bum's, put my arm around her or just keep it as friends. My actual gut says just keep doing the same thing and let W's imagination do the rest.

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Games can be fun.


That's what I thought! At least it will put a smile on my face if nothing else.

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I am going out with that girl on Friday. Going to post some new pictures on facebook of her and I together and have it open to friends of friends can see it. So WAS will be able to see pictures of me out with the same woman 2 months later.


I have just made my pictures on FB public. Only me and D on there so far but I will be adding more .... soon!

Last edited by P17; 12/01/09 10:29 PM.

Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

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