Yep, agree with John, but with a caveat... 50/50 of assets acquired during the marriage.

I was in Dan's shoes as the one in the marriage with the much higher income. I went above and beyond to show proof of all income. Just remember once facet of Dan is he has proven to not be up and up trustworthy by the mere fact of lying and sneaking around in an affair.

Does he have equity in the company he works for? I had equity before marriage, but X's L did not try for any of it as the valuation was the same as when she married me.