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BTW, as far as I know, we women do not like extreme drama. It may seem like that to some men, but quite honestly, most of my female friends like serenity and peace --- we do not like these rollercoaster rides anymore than the men here do. And, I know (Gnosis?) was generalizing. I think MLCers like the drama, however.


I'm about as far from an expert on women as you can find. I did just see the movie "He's Just Not That Into You" though! LOL! I don't think women "like" the drama, but it does keep them interested.

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Anyway, I am starting to see what you are trying to do here, Future. Keep her guessing and off balance and retrieving your personal boundaries and power. So far, so good.


Exactly. Retrieve my boundaries and power. She's owned them for YEARS, and it's high time I took them back. This isn't really a game any more. If we can somehow reconcile, it has to be within a context of mutual respect, and the way things were going, that would have never happened.