So good to read such a positive update from you, Bunny! I thought about you all weekend. Nice to hear you are getting support from your H's family!
Good luck with your D17...I was that age when my parents divorced (NOT saying that's where you're headed) and it was quite a shock at the time--they never fought (that we could hear anyway) either. I just came home from school and my mom was home from work (it was a holiday) and she told me he'd moved out. Done. Looking back on it, it was inevitable and a good thing in the long run. But girls, at that age particularly, LOVE drama and all that, but I know you can handle it!