Counseling conundrums

[TrentC]

Things have gone exceedingly smooth the last few days. H has bent over backwards to be helpful and really nice while I was moving this weekend. For example, last night he came over to set up the router for my computer, he picked up a couple of items for my kitchen while he was shopping for himself, and there have been no disagreements over splitting up the joint property. It's a little weird. My mom warned me to be on guard for a backlash or sudden change of attitude by H, and I'm keeping that in mind. I still have some clothes and some other stuff at the house, and I'm making a trip once or twice a day until I get it all.

I agree with your mom; he may be trying to keep up appearances around everyone else, or lull you into thinking that he's changing. No one turns around that fast.

Thank you to everybody for your well-wishes, thoughts and prayers this weekend. It was draining, physically and emotionally, and I hope you know how much I appreciated your support and love you all.

Just keep checking in. Glad to see your update.