my W doesn't regret her affair

[BeingMe]

She is a very experienced MC, but she and her colleagues have no respect for MWD. She's (obviously) from the school of "do what's right for you rather than the marriage".

Yeah, the "what makes ME happy" brigade. And scr*w everyone else!

You gave her a bit of carrot... then a bit of stick with the email. Good job. Play the game... hot/cold. Create the drama. Women love it! (Oops, sorry to the ladies reading this...)

BTW, (just to be clear) as far as I know, we women do not like extreme drama. It may seem like that to some men, but quite honestly, most of my female friends and I like serenity, clarity and peace --- we do not like these rollercoaster rides anymore than the men here do. We do express our emotions easier, but that's just one of the ways many women communicate our feelings. And, I know (Gnosis) was generalizing. But, I am tired of women always being portrayed as naggers, drama queens, etc. My first H was the biggest nagger ever which is why he is my EX. I think MLCers like the drama, however, men and women. No offence taken, and nuff said. Just saying.

Anyway, I am starting to see what you are trying to do here, Future. Keep her guessing and off balance and retrieving your personal boundaries and power. So far, so good.

As for the note --- definitely point out that the children should not be affected negatively. That the mediation and D is between the two of you, and that the children are not to be used as pawns. Good point to make.