Yes, I do want to stay in the marriage. I'm frustrated that the IC and MC advice is to back off and I don't see how I can address the relationship issues without at least talking about the marriage. It's like fighting with one hand tied behind your back.

I've been very patience and methodical about DBing up to this point. I want to know what the next step in BDing should be.

M-49
W-48
M-18, T-24
S-12
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12/08-ILYBINILWY
3/09-EA & PA Discovered
4/09-Began DBing
1/10-2nd Bomb PA Fully Disclosed