Things have gone exceedingly smooth the last few days. H has bent over backwards to be helpful and really nice while I was moving this weekend. For example, last night he came over to set up the router for my computer, he picked up a couple of items for my kitchen while he was shopping for himself, and there have been no disagreements over splitting up the joint property. It's a little weird. My mom warned me to be on guard for a backlash or sudden change of attitude by H, and I'm keeping that in mind. I still have some clothes and some other stuff at the house, and I'm making a trip once or twice a day until I get it all.
S19 is handling this much better than D17. He's rolling right along with things, but she's upset and confused. She sees me buying some new stuff and she thinks that it means its permanent. We told her we haven't made any final decisions reagrding a D, but she's not sure if she believes us. She also sees us being nice to each other and that confuses her. "You don't look like any divorcing couple I know. They are either screaming at each other or not speaking." Well, again, we're not divorcing at the moment- just giving each other some space.
Tonight H and I are going to the show with the tickets that I got him for his b-day since we're doing OK together for now. It's probably our last outing as a couple for a while.
A couple of my sister in laws from H's family also called, which really helped me a lot. I'm not being deserted by his family, they support both of us, and they love me.
Thank you to everybody for your well-wishes, thoughts and prayers this weekend. It was draining, physically and emotionally, and I hope you know how much I appreciated your support and love you all.
