I told W go ahead and take the girls and make it a special evening for MIL. I said I will just get them on Thursday night so they can all keep their plans and not have to rearrange anything.

W sounded shocked and said "Thank you. I really appreciate that".

I said not a problem and I hope it helps her mom feel better about the holidays.

I think I stunned my W. Although I am not sure why she would be stunned. I always willingly move aside and work to make her mom feel comfortable or happy or whatever the situation may be. But it is good that she at least appreciates it and notices.

Kevin

Last edited by K4D; 12/01/09 09:30 PM.
Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...