Thanks for all of the encouragment, I really need it.
Had to stay over for a meeting at work this morning. Got home about 8:30 a.m., about an hour and a half later than normal. I didn't call her to let her know. As I walked in the door she was at the door putting her shoes on about to walk out of the door for work. Neither of us spoke. She just told me to leave the door open because she was on her way out. I left it open, didn't say a word and went to bed.
She is completely oblivious to anything that doesn't affect her and probably won't even notice that I've gone dark. But I have to admit that it is strangely refreshing.
Me-47 WAW-42 D-16 S-14 M-22 yrs T-19 yrs ILYBNILWY-3 years ago. Full Story and original posts: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...066#Post1781066
It's funny because over the last year or so she developed the bad habit of not speaking to me when she comes or goes. It would drive me crazy because it is so crazy and rude. I couldn't understand how she could refuse to speak to her husband who lives with her and takes care of her and the family but speak to strangers on the street and co-workers at work. But now that I have gone dark I have a desire NOT to speak to her. Maybe a dose of her own medicine and of reality will do us both some good.
Me-47 WAW-42 D-16 S-14 M-22 yrs T-19 yrs ILYBNILWY-3 years ago. Full Story and original posts: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...066#Post1781066
It's funny because over the last year or so she developed the bad habit of not speaking to me when she comes or goes. It would drive me crazy because it is so crazy and rude. I couldn't understand how she could refuse to speak to her husband who lives with her and takes care of her and the family but speak to strangers on the street and co-workers at work.
Maybe it drove her crazy that you never stood up for yourself and brought it up. Women can't love men they don't respect, ignoring someone is disrespectful. Simple relationship rule: If something is bothering you it is your responsiblity to bring it up.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
I've brought it up numerous times. She would act as if she doesn't know that she is doing it or that she is doing it unintentionally. But whenever we would get into an argument she would say "see, this is why I don't speak to you because you just start arguments", that told me that she was not speaking on purpose. She speaks about half the time but even when she does it is just a dry, mumbled, "hi". I stopped bringing it up because I got tired of beating a dead horse. But now what's good for the goose.......................
Me-47 WAW-42 D-16 S-14 M-22 yrs T-19 yrs ILYBNILWY-3 years ago. Full Story and original posts: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...066#Post1781066
