Well, initially she disclosed her feelings openly and honestly. She did lie about traveling out of with the OP. She has regular phone contact. I do not look at her phone record. I do not look at her email. I They also work togather so they are with each other several days each week.We discussed this in counseling. In counseling, she said this is just a friendship and she does not have romantic feelings for this person. I have no alternative but to accept this version of the truth, understanding it may change because she is mixed up.
