What I find interesting is that nothing I said in my e-mail was particularly inflammatory. I tried to make it as matter of fact as I could. That she reacted so emotionally tells me she's still very emotionally invested in our marriage.
You could have said "all whites are white"; she would have disagreed with you and likely lashed back.
Right now, you are showing your very first signs of not going along with her little Master Plan. Methinks she's not going to like that too much.
Gotta scoot for my flag football team's (S13) first practice and parents meeting. I'll try to check back in on you later tonite.