I don't have a clue BBJ! I guess you could guess really high in the petition, and if he doesn't counter, then you were either right, or he loses. That might be the easiest way to force his hand. Since I know he is not dumb, if you are going to clean him out, he will have to come clean.
Joint custody can mean a lot of things. If you are going to have the kids more than he does, make sure you get the money you should. I found AZ's child support numbers to be really low, we agreed to a higher number. The judge didn't object to signing off on that!
Yep Dan is being generous on some of that stuff, too. He stipulated that I should receive alimony for a minimum of 5 years, up to 8 if I haven't yet remarried. Since I am young and employed, typically spousal support is only for 2-3 years.
He also stipulated he wants me to get 30% of his salary bonuses for the next 5-8 years, same conditions apply re. marriage. So that is good!
I texted him asking for either his 401(k) login information, or the current balance (the last statement I have is from 3 months ago). He replied that he will finish things up at the hotel tonight (he is in Canada again), that he has already done the estimates for the cows, tractor and trailers...
