That makes sense TrentC. I talked to my counselor today and she told me that this is not uncommon with WAW. She told me that my success tied directly with my W success in life. So for my current game plan I think I am going to try to be supportive and let her get her way. Let her know that I am not going to come between her success and what she wants to accomplish.
It makes sense in allot of ways, my W is trying to do things on her own and because of past this is something she feels she cannot do with me. So once she feels success then she will be able to possibly return with a new sense of freedom and accomplishment.
Crossing my fingers.
I will post my progress and reactions.
Me 33 WOW 31 Married 12 years 4 YOD 1 YOD(adoption process) Bomb & moved out 4/01/09 Divorced 12/17/09