No, I am not sure there is an A and yes he is married also. One thing is certain, she is confused and putting out mixed signals. I can't trust her. Her most recent statement is that she does not have those kind of feelings for anyone and thier relationship is professional. But the defense is always we're "just friends". I have told her a do not approve of any relationship beyond a friendship. Isn't it up to her to bust it? I think she is struggling with it.
I am not going to say, "End the relationship or I am leaving" The simple fact is, I am not. I am dedicated to my marriage even though my wife is checked out right now. Any suggestions on how I can establish boundries without threatening to leave and actually leaving when the my wife is not present and working on the relationship? I'd love to hear them.
