Well, I have thought about it and I have decided that I will be ignoring the email. It is still too wishy washy. If he *really* wants to see me he will pursue me, if he doesn't then fine. After all he used to ignore me all the time! This was a really hard decision for me to make and a huge and scary 180! I was doing so well and this reminded me of feelings that I no longer want to feel. So I am thinking with my head, not my heart.

He should be receiving the papers this week.

(((Michelle))) apart from the divorce those are the last bits. If he doesn't do it I will get my solicitor to write to him. I have tried the nice way. Hopefully he will have though.

(((Wholeagain))) Welcome, thank you for posting to me smile and for the hugs! I needed that reminder that it is all about me now. I'm so unused to thinking that way, it is taking some training! :-)

Life is good at the moment; I have learnt a few lessons of late that have really made me stronger and clearer about what I am looking for in relationships, setting expectations for myself and not settling for anything less than the best. Also, I have started a new fitness regime with my sister. We are now exercising before work 3 times a week which has the extra bonuses of getting rid of some of the morning depression I was feeling and also getting me to work on time as well as the fitness stuff. As my sister is doing it with me it means I have to go or face her wrath wink

I hope I have made the right decision. I think that I have for me, although it was so unbelievably tempting to meet. I just could no longer carry on as I was doing.

M- May 2006
D - Aug 2010
Now travelling the world