D is my daughter and I will be attending. I think it would be best if we keep the needs of our kids above the issues between you and me. If you aren't going to be there at all, let me know and I'll bring D to you after I bring S and (other) D to school.
As for mediation, I'll pay the mediator for the session and we can discuss with her how we'll share the cost for the rest. It's my turn to pay for a session anyway.
I know this is hard. Let's just get through it ok?
