Still Wondering How To Handle Things!!

[kissak]

Hi all! I had a great thanksgiving....ate wayyyyy toooo much though! Glad all that food is gone now!!

Something happened on that morning though that I should probably tell!

My H called me on thanksgiving morning, we were talking about his dad. His dad was in the hospt, he had a heart attack the week before. We talked a good while, then when he was ready to hang up he said "I will see you for dinner at your moms" I said "ok, I will talk to you later"...then he said "i love you".

I was soo shocked to hear those words that I kinda mumble them back to him without thinking...and said goodbye and he said the same.

Well, there I was...picking my jaw up off the floor. My H has not said those 3 words in that way in 3 YEARS!! After I collected myself, I texted him and said that I was sorry, but he had caught me off guard. He replyed with "i know, It caught me off guard too". It has never been said since or even discussed.

So weird. So very weird to me.

Anyway, things have been going ok. He comes over more, and spends time with the kids at my house.

Ive told him that I really dont wanna talk about him coming home until after the holidays. Because I know they are an emotional time and I dont want him acting on those emotions.

But all is good for now.

We did have a great thanksgiving day. My parents and the rest of my disfunctional family put aside all differences with the ex's for one day and enjoyed a great feast!