"To continue to exclude me from any and all events that involve my own kids, for everyone else to sit away from me with my kids because they are to gutless to stand up to her and say what is wrong is wrong when the kids are involved especially if it is for the kids."
You're going to have to get over this. Having events alone without the other spouse there is what separated/divorced people do. Deal with it. What's going to happen when she gets a BF and starts taking trips together with him and your kids? Are you going to be upset because you were excluded?
It is what it is right now. Live as if she wasn't coming back already. detach.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
